Frequently Asked Questions
I understand that a PRE can feel overwhelming and unfamiliar and selecting the right evaluator can be challenging. This FAQ is designed to help you understand the process, what to expect, and how the evaluator's role fits into your case. My goal is to provide clarity and reduce uncertainty during this important step. If you don’t find the answer you are looking for, please contact me. I am happy to explain procedures and fees so you know what to expect. I cannot provide legal advice or advocate for either parent. I am committed to conducting a thorough and neutral evaluation that keeps the best interests of the child(ren) at the center.
What is a PRE?
A Parental Responsibilities Evaluation (PRE) is an in-depth assessment conducted by a neutral mental health professional, ordered by the court, to help determine what parenting arrangements are in the best interest of the child(ren).
Why would the court order a PRE?
Courts may order a PRE when parents cannot agree on custody or parenting time, or when there are concerns for the child(ren)'s well-being. The evaluator's report provides the court with professional recommendations to help inform decisions about these issues. ​
What happens during the PRE process?
The process typically includes:
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Interviews with each parent
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Interviews with the children
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Home visits (when appropriate)
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Contact with teachers, doctors, and other professionals involved with the child(ren)/family
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Psychological testing
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Review of pertinent records ​
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The evaluator writes a detailed report with recommendations for the court
Will the child(ren) be asked to choose between parents?
No. Children are never asked to choose one parent over the other. The evaluator's goal is to understand the child(ren)'s needs, experiences, and perspectives in an age-appropriate and supportive way.
How is a PRE different from therapy or mediation?
A PRE is not therapy and it is not mediation. The evaluator's role is to remain neutral and provide the court with an objective assessment, not to help parents reconcile or resolve disagreements directly.
How long does a PRE take?
Typical turn around time from the time of the initial appointment to the submission of the final report to the court varies, but averages 90-120 days.
What should I tell my child(ren) about the PRE process?
It is best to keep explanations simple, age-appropriate, and neutral. Let your child(ren) know they will be meeting with a professional whose job is to learn about families and to help the court make decisions that are best for children. Reassure your child(ren) that there are no "right" or "wrong" answers, that they do not have to take sides, and it is safe to share their thoughts and feelings if they feel comfortable doing so. Let them know that this is not therapy and what they say is not confidential. Avoid coaching or rehearsing with your child(ren) as this is not beneficial and can add stress for your child(ren).
Is the information I share in a PRE confidential?
No. Information gathered during a PRE is not confidential. The evaluator's findings and recommendations are shared with the court and, in most cases, with both parents and their attorneys.
How much does a PRE cost?
Costs vary depending on the scope of the evaluation and the complexity of the case. Fees are set by the evaluator and the amount each party pays is determined by the court. Parties pay evaluation fees directly to the evaluator. PRE's are not covered by health insurance. Please contact me for my current retainer rate and fee schedule.